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Men Dating Tips
On a date.
I’m going to try to give you some men dating tips that I believe can really help you in your love life. Some of these tips may seem a little off the wall, and not the kind of tips you normally get.
I’m not going to tell you things like “play to his ego” or “laugh at all his jokes” or things like that. Personally, I think that type of thing is very poor advice.
Instead I will provide you with tips that will help you meet a great guy and, hopefully, have a great relationship. But, it will be a relationship of equals, not of a woman catering to a man and losing herself in the process.
It will be about finding a relationship between equals and a relationship of mutual love and respect.
So, if that sounds good to you, here we go:
Number the following lines in the correct order:
||guy who has to dominate or undermine you to feel good about himself, do you? If you are desperate that is
||First of all,
||exactly the type of man you will attract.
||be ok with being on your own. Sounds weird, I know, but if you are desperate for a guy you will attract the wrong
||kinds of guys. You don’t want an insecure
Instead, be a successful, confidant woman who has lots of interests and lots of friends. A woman who would love a great man to share her life with but doesn’t have to have one just to feel good about herself.
Build your life first and a good man will usually appear!
- While we all want to be appreciated, many men will be uncomfortable if you come on too strong and try too hard to please. Oddly enough, the type of guy you would probably really want to be with: someone who is self assured and kind, probably isn’t the kind of guy who will respond well to phoniness.
A confidant man will want a woman who truly appreciates him, but that doesn’t mean some brainless robot who seems like she is faking her appreciation of his humor or actions.
A real man likes a real woman. Someone who is confidant, strong, kind, loving and who has a mind of her own. A strong man won’t appreciate a weak, needy woman who doesn’t seem to have a mind of her own.
Be yourself, don’t change to be who you think he wants you to be. If he doesn’t appreciate who you are, then he isn’t the right guy for you.
- Be willing to try new things, but don’t be fake. If your guy likes to watch sports, give it a try. Once you know a little bit about a certain sport, you might actually find that you enjoy it. But, even after a fair try if you find that you don’t actually like it, tell him.
The two of you can compromise; he can either watch the (football) game on his own while you go do your thing, or you will watch the game with him (and be a good sport about it) but that means he’ll have to watch something that you like that he may not really be in to (and he has to be a good sport about it).
Really, any successful relationship comes from two mature, self confidant people who are willing to compromise and who know how to explain their feelings in a constructive way. There are no secrets or gimmicks, it’s just about knowing who you are and how to get along with others without losing yourself. These are the best men dating tips I can give you.